Motherhood Redefined

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          Mothers are the creators. Motherhood is the highest state of living any woman can ever have. It's a blessing. Positive attitudes and will powers mixed with healthy adjustments and sacrifices may result into healthy and productive living. Only a little bit of understanding and modification is needed.

🦋Let happiness and peace (not perfection) be the ultimate goal in life. This is important.

🦋If you are sacrificing something because of motherhood, just pause for a while and look out, you may be blessed with loads of other options. Think and explore those.

🦋Be happy, confident and focused with whatever you are having in your life. Live every moment.

🦋Accept that you can't have everything at a single point of time. You will miss out something always for sure.

🦋Learn to let go and flush out all negativities from your life.

🦋Learn to say NO. It's no harm.

🦋Prioritize your daily deeds and curve out some "ME TIME" everday. This is not selfishness.

🦋Spend your quality time with your baby and grow. You will feel more energetic and lively.

🦋Stop expecting from others. Ask for help or do by yourself.

🦋Think wisely and do something productive everday. Help others and feel good about yourself.

🦋Take care of yourself. Unless and until you are doing so you can not take care of others.

🦋Only a happy and positive mother can fill up her little one's life (the future generation) with happiness and positivity.

Disclaimer- I am not any professional. I'm just sharing my personal views based on my experience. This may or may not match with yours. I own all the pictures and footage of this blog. Kindly do not reproduce without prior permission. 

©️Prama Sarkar, 2020.

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