Parenting Done Right : Stop Beating

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A lot of parents believe that beating up their children is the perfect way to control them and make them good human beings. But this may NOT be possible in practice.

🔴 Such NEGATIVE input may not produce positive output. Rather this may result to the introduction of frustration, arrogance, violence which are definitely HARMFUL for the PSYCHOLOGICAL GROWTH of a child.


🔴 The children love to IMITATE the person they like the most. Likewise, they may imitate and implement the action of attacking in other spheres of their life too.

🔴 During childhood, children love to EXPLORE new things. What is uninteresting to you may seem to be interesting to them. Beating may discourage and damage their exploring ability.

🔴 Sometimes a single hit may scar deeper than a thousand hugs in a child's mind. This may hamper the BONDING between parents and children. Infact they may stop sharing their problems and may feel LESS VALUED and ISOLATED.

🔴 They may get scared, confused, angry and finally will learn to MISBEHAVE and again will get beaten up. Actually the entire process is cyclic.

🔴 They may not be able to adjust with the conflicting situations in life and will become FRUSTRATED, IMPATIENT so quickly. Moreover children are going to be the future parents and spouses. So they may implement, whatever they receive in early childhood, in their own parenting and other relationships in their ADULTHOOD too.

❤Instead❤
✅Ofcourse as parents we have to be more controlled, polished, patient human beings.
✅Children make mistakes and definitely they will. All of us have made some sort of mistakes during our chilhood.
✅But instead of getting frustrated Let the child grow. Let the child explore new things.
✅Spend quality time with your kid. This will help developing their self confidence, problem solving skills, family bond
✅Sit and talk to them and make them understand the difference between right and wrong, good and bad.
✅Parenting is the toughest as well as nobel task indeed. Let us all do our duties with utmost love and care. May God bless us all.

Disclaimer- I am not any professional. I'm just sharing my personal views based on my experience. This may or may not match with yours. I own all the pictures and footage of this blog. Kindly do not reproduce without prior permission. 

©️Prama Sarkar, 2020.

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